Trust
Two days to go before Christmas! There's something about this season which bring out the spirit of giving, compassion and love in each and everyone of us. If we could only keep this spirit alive everyday, then there would be lasting peace here on earth.
For the past couple of weeks, I've been asking God what message He wants me to share with you all this Christmas and this morning, when I woke up, I remembered a dream I had.
In this dream, I was in some kind of a classroom and I remember seeing a blackboard and on it was written in big, bold, white letters the word TRUST.

The first thing that came to my mind when I woke up was this dream and so I thought that this must be the subject matter which God wants me to talk about today as my Christmas message.
I have written (and spoken) a lot about trusting God in this blog and I have included the links below (in case you may want to refer to them later on):
- Stop Worrying And Trust God
- Video – Are You Constantly Worried?
- Video – God Is Bigger Than Your Problems
- What To Do To Boost Your Faith
So what do I write about today about trust which I haven't written or spoken about? Ok, let me tell you about something very personal and I hope you will learn a thing or two about trust, specifically about trusting God, from my story.
This year has been a very challenging year for me, particularly on the financial aspect of life. I have made decisions which affected my financial resources negatively that it came to a point that I have to give up my mom's personal caregiver so that I can keep a roof over our heads. My husband is a very good man but his salary wasn't enough to pay all our financial obligations.
Consequently, with the caregiver gone, I have to be her full time caregiver. At the same time, I have to do all the other household chores like cleaning the house, cooking and at the same time, run a home-based mobile marketing business. Everyday, I sleep at 2am so I can devote some time answering 'urgent' emails from St. Joseph Site's subscribers, design and create mobile websites, develops apps, create and update affiliate blogs. etc.
Now, what has all these got to do with trusting God? Looking back, the wrong decisions I made were mine and mine alone. I never consulted God like I normally would do. I just went ahead and implemented my plans. I trusted myself too much and I behaved like I didn't need Him at all. Lesson learned – submit your plans to God and trust Him as your Partner. I cannot emphasize this enough.
I reflected on all the decisions I have made in my life – major and minor ones – and the ones which turned out right had a common pattern to them. These were the decisions I made after much praying for guidance, and obeying what God wanted me to do even if they were not exactly what I wanted. You see, trusting is obeying. Just look at our Blessed Mother and St. Joseph. They trusted God and they obeyed.
To be honest, there were days when I was so exhausted that I couldn't help but cry. And making matters worse were bills which needed to be paid month after month after month and we just did not have enough to pay them all. I was so stressed, tired and weary and with all these, I forgot my one Source of never ending help, rest and consolation – my beloved God, the God I used to trust and run to whenever I was troubled.
I am alright now. The challenges are still there, but there is one HUGE difference – God`s lost lamb is back – I`m back and He carries me on His shoulder each day. I trust Him with a renewed faith which is far greater than before. God is the source of all my supply. He never fails to provide.
If there is one thing that I can give our Lord Jesus on His birthday, it`s my TRUST and with God`s grace, it is my hope that it will be never ending, never failing, like His love for us.
Give the gift of TRUST to God this Christmas and everyday. Trusting God is the key to peace and happiness in life!
Christmas Trees as “Holiday Trees”
Apparently the White House referred to Christmas Trees as Holiday Trees
for the first time this year which prompted CBS presenter, Ben Stein, to
present this piece which I would like to share with you. I think it
applies just as much to many countries as it does to America …
The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday
Morning Commentary.
My confession:
I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it does
not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up,
bejeweled trees, Christmas trees. I don't feel threatened. I don't
feel discriminated against. That's what they are, Christmas trees.
It doesn't bother me a bit when people say, 'Merry Christmas' to me. I
don't think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a
ghetto. In fact, I kind of like it. It shows that we are all brothers
and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn't bother me at
all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near my
beach house in Malibu . If people want a creche, it's just as fine with
me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away.
I don't like getting pushed around for being a Jew, and I don't think
Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians. I think
people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around,
period. I have no idea where the concept came from, that America is an
explicitly atheist country. I can't find it in the Constitution and I
don't like it being shoved down my throat.
Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we
should worship celebrities and we aren't allowed to worship God ? I
guess that's a sign that I'm getting old, too. But there are a lot of us
who are wondering where these celebrities came from and where the America
we knew went to.
In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is a
little different: This is not intended to be a joke; it's not funny,
it's intended to get you thinking.
Billy Graham's daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane
Clayson asked her 'How could God let something like this happen?'
(regarding Hurricane Katrina).. Anne Graham gave an extremely profound
and insightful response. She said, 'I believe God is deeply saddened by
this, just as we are, but for years we've been telling God to get out of
our schools, to get out of our government and to get out of our lives.
And being the gentleman He is, I believe He has calmly backed out. How
can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we demand
He leave us alone?'
In light of recent events… terrorists attack, school shootings, etc. I
think it started when Madeleine Murray O'Hare (she was murdered, her body
found a few years ago) complained she didn't want prayer in our schools,
and we said OK. Then someone said you better not read the Bible in
school. The Bible says thou shalt not kill; thou shalt not steal, and
love your neighbor as yourself. And we said OK.
Then Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn't spank our children when they
misbehave, because their little personalities would be warped and we
might damage their self-esteem (Dr. Spock's son committed suicide). We
said an expert should know what he's talking about. And we said okay.
Now we're asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they
don't know right from wrong, and why it doesn't bother them to kill
strangers, their classmates, and themselves.
Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it
out. I think it has a great deal to do with 'WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.'
Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the
world's going to hell. Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but
question what the Bible says. Funny how you can send 'jokes' through
e-mail and they spread like wildfire, but when you start sending
messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing. Funny
how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through
cyberspace, but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and
workplace.
Are you laughing yet?
October Prayer To St. Joseph
Especially for those who have a devotion to St. Joseph, there is an "October Prayer to St. Joseph". I got the prayer below from the booklet "Devotions to Saint Joseph" by Brian Moore, S.J., printed and published by the Society of St. Paul. It was written by Leo XIII and is commonly said after praying Our Lady's Rosary. If you have visited St. Joseph's Site, you may have already seen this prayer.
October Prayer to St. Joseph
To you blessed Joseph, we come
for we are in need.
We have asked the help of Mary, your wife,
and with confidence we ask, too, for your help.
Remember the love with which you were
united to the Immaculate Virgin Mary, Mother of God;
remember the father's love you had
for the Child Jesus you carried in your arms.
By those two loves we pray you
look with love on the human race,
which Jesus our Lord won by His blood.
Help us with your power in all our needs.
You were a careful provider for the Holy Family:
protect, then, the chosen people of Jesus Christ.
As a loving father, keep far from us
all that could lead us wrong or corrupt us.
Our warfare is with the power of darkness:
in your kindness, mighty Defender,
help us from your place in heaven.
Long ago, you rescued the Child Jesus
from the danger which threatened His life:
defend, now, the holy Church of God
from the traps the Enemy lays,
and from all adversity.
Keep us, everyone, in your continuing care.
Strengthened by your example,
aided by your assistance,
may we have the strength to lead a good life,
die a happy death, and come finally to possess
the everlasting happiness of heaven.
The Blessed Trinity? What’s That?
There are aspects of our faith that are easy to define, explain or discuss. But for me, it is always a challenge to elucidate on the Blessed Trinity. It is a mystery, it is hard to talk about it in practical terms. If someone will ask me about it, I will probably pause for a long while, maybe even scratch my head and refer him/her to the writings of St. Augustine
I mentioned St. Augustine because everytime I think about the Blessed Trinity, I recall the story about St. Augustine and the boy at the beach. The story goes like this:
He went by the sea-side in Africa, studying on the Trinity, he found by the sea-side a little child which had made a little pit in the sand, and in his hand a little spoon. And with the spoon he took out water of the large sea and poured it into the pit.
And when St Augustin beheld him he marvelled, and demanded him what he did. And he answered and said: “I will lade out and bring all this water of the sea into this pit.”
“What?” said he, “it is impossible, how may it be done, sith the sea is so great and large, and thy pit and spoon so little?”
“Yes, forsooth,” said he, “I shall lightlier and sooner draw all the water of the sea and bring it into this pit than thou shalt bring the mystery of the Trinity and His Divinity into thy little understanding as to the regard thereof; for the Mystery of the Trinity is greater and larger to the comparison of thy wit and brain than is this great sea unto this little pit.” (from Golden Legends written by Jacobus Voragine, Archbishop of Genoa in 1275)
So I guess understanding fully the mystery of the Blessed Trinity is beyond our capacity as human beings.
That’s why I was happy to listen to a homily today given by Deacon Tom of Corpus Christi Church where I attend Mass every Sunday and sing with the Joy of the Lord Music Ministry. While we cannot completely comprehend the mystery of the Blessed Trinity, I like the analogy which Deacon Tom gave. He said something about water which made me say to myself, “Yes, he’s right. That makes sense.”
He said water mainly has 3 forms: ice, liquid (water) and steam. Yet, no matter what form it takes, it essentially has the same elements – 2 atoms of hydrogen and 1 atom of oxygen (H2O). In a similar vein, so is the Blessed Trinity. Although there are 3 Divine Persons, they are one and the same God.
The love of our Father is as solid as ice, strong and perfect. Like water, the love of our Lord Jesus Christ, our Gentle Shepherd, refreshes our soul and flows into our hearts. Like steam, God gives us power through His Holy Spirit.
So if someone asks you about the Blessed Trinity, remember Deacon’s Tom analogy. I really think it’s a good one.
St. Joseph’s Site Fan Page
I just finished creating the St. Joseph’s Site Fan Page at Facebook. To be honest, I’m not really much into Facebook and that’s why it took me a while to set up a fan page. But I acknowledge Facebook’s viral power and I know it can be an excellent avenue to promote the devotion to St. Joseph.
So when you get the chance, please visit the St. Joseph’s Site Fan page at:
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Daily Prayer To St. Joseph For Employment
I received this email from one of my subscribers and thought I’d post it in my blog as I receive a lot of prayer requests daily from people asking for prayers for employment. Please read the email below:
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I found this prayer in my Daughters toy box, I believe it belonged to my grandfather who always prayed to St Joseph for assistance.
Dear St. Joseph,
You were yourself once faced with the responsibility of providing the necessities of life for Jesus and Mary.
Look down with fatherly compassion upon me in my anxiety over my present inability to support my family.
Please help me to find gainful employment very soon, so that this heavy burden of concern will be lifted from my heart, and that I am soon able to provide for those whom God has entrusted to my care.
Help us to guard against bitterness and discouragement so that we may emerge from this trial spiritually enriched and with even greater blessings from God.
Say One Decade of the Rosary
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If you know someone who is unemployed, you can give this to her/him.
If you have a prayer to St. Joseph which you would like to share with readers of this blog, please feel free to email me at babes@stjosephsite.com and I will post it.



